Before you know it, I found myself living alone and now an adult. I went on to established several businesses before getting married. Lost everything in a hotly contested divorce, and then filled for bankruptcy. With four kids to take care of, I now realize, there were many crucial habits my parents did not teach me.
They probably did not know about them, but if I had learned these habits as a teenager, my adult mistakes would be fewer in-between.
If you’re a teenager reading this, consider yourself lucky, because the steps I would propose you take starting from today, would certainly make you very rich in due time.
Success in life requires you cultivate certain habits that are good for you. If you think you can go around just day dreaming about success, then you’ll probably not achieve much success in whatever you choose to do.
I am now 51, and I have participated in more ventures than I care to remember. I have tried my hands at washing cars, shinning shoes, cleaning houses, baby-sitting, tutoring other kids, selling used clothes, etc.
Despite all I have learned, the three habits I would give you would have made a tremendous difference in my financial life.
The three Habits Every Kid Need to Become a Millionaire
Habit No 1 – You Need Proper Time Management
You have 24 hours in a day, and you probably now spend about 8 hours sleeping, which leaves 16 hours. Out of the remaining hours, most kids would spend about 7 to 8 hours in school during the week, which leaves you with only 8 hours remaining.
When you include transportation, eating, home-work, the twenty four hours seem to disappear like magic. From now on, here is what I want you to do, get a dairy with a calendar, and plan out your daily activities.
You must realize, that time is not to be wasted and can become money, if utilized the right way. Plan everyday just the way you want it to go. The plan must be written down, and not just in your head.
Unless you learn proper time management, you’ll never become rich. Write down what time you should be in bed, what time you should be doing your home-work, what time you should be playing, and what time you should be hanging out.
Here Are Some Advantages to Planning your Daily Activities
1- As you get better at sticking to your daily plan, you’ll notice you’re controlling the activities around you, and not the other way around.
2- Your productivity would increase tremendously, because you now know the time constraint you face if you slack off.
3 – When you develop time discipline, must adults you come across would help you in anyway they can.
4 – Since you’re no longer available for whatever goes, your leadership qualities would have time to develop. People love to follow those that know what they want to do with their time.
5 – Your school progress will now be the stuff of legends. Since you now know the value of time, your studying habits should get better, and to the surprise of your parents and teachers.
6 – You’ll start to grow and mature quickly, plus much more emotionally stable. Proper control of emotions is what’s needed, for you to see the world as it relates to us.
7 – Since you have limited time to watch television shows, you’ll not be easily brainwashed by the latest Shows, created to sow distraction among teenagers.
8 – You’ll develop a human power to resist what doesn’t fit into your daily plans. While other kids just do whatever comes up, your purpose in life becomes clearer by each passing day.
Some Distractions To Resist:
1 – Some so called stronger kids might try to get you to come along with their plans, and your power to say no should be developed, as you stick to your plans.
2 – Since, your grades would be much improved by now, the bullies and kids with poor grades might try to rattle your strict discipline schedule. You have to stand up for yourself, and let them know you’re in charge of your time, and your life.
3 – You’ll start to attract other classmates with different agendas. Some would try to emulate you, while others would try to change you. Resist the changers, and encourage the emulators.
Time is a finite resource, and the more you regulate it to your schedule, the richer you’ll become. Trust me, this is the key habit that a true solid success can be built on.
If you do not master this key habit, the other habits might just be like an exercise in futility. Get that daily calendar going, because you’re in charge of your future potential.
Master this habit and the foundation of your success would be as solid as rock, I kid you not!
Habit No 2 – Create a Master Plan For Your Life
I have one good, or not so good news for you, depending on how you take it. The world does not owe you anything! You get that! What you get out of life, is what you’re expecting from life.
Sadly, most kids just accept what life gives them, and falsely say it must be God’s plan. Whether you’re religious or not, success always will favor those that plan for it, and work towards it.
Since you’re a teenager, you probably have some ideas about what you want to do with your life. Start immediately, by putting some of them on paper.
Buy you a notebook, and start creating a master plan for your life. Lets break it down a little bit, this is what your plan should look like:
A – This would be your Life Goal
You want to create a clear idea in your head, what you want to become. In this regard, I would urge you to dream big. Nothing is beyond your grasp, as long as you stick to what you like to do. Most activities in life are lucrative, as long as you enjoy doing it.
B – Now Break it Down into Manageable Parts
If I told you, I would feed you a whole cow, you probably would resist, and call me crazy. But if I give you a piece of steak every now and then, within a few months you would have consumed a whole cow.
Big ideas when broken down into tiny parts, becomes more manageable. Lets say you want to be a lawyer, write down the schedule you need to adhere to, until you become a lawyer. Lets us use that as an example:
You’ll need to finish high school with very good grades, so that you can get into a very good college. Write down the cost of your college education in totality.
Visit the college website, or better yet call the admissions office and ask about tuition cost. This would be an estimate, but you need to do it anyway, to get universal forces to align to your goals.
Write down what colleges you’ll need to attend. Do not worry about cost, for when you have clear and precise goals, the world will always provide a way and means to get it done, as long as you know the price to pay.
After college, you’ll be attending law school, select the ones you think would help you become a good lawyer. Write down what the law school would cost, even thou the numbers might be higher when you’re ready.
Consider what type of lawyer you would like to be. A good lawyer can select from several specialties. To get a better idea of what branch of law would interest you, call several law firms, and ask for a meeting with some of the top partners.
Some might say no, but you’ll get some positive feedback in due time. Most good adults would help a teenager that knows exactly what they want out of life
If you want some help making up your mind about what branch of law to master, visit your local court house and watch some of the proceedings. I promise you, the court process would be an education in itself.
If you choose another profession, just follow the same tactics, to arrive at the road map to get to your ultimate goal.
By now you should have an idea what you want to become, and an estimated cost of college and any professional degrees you might need, to make it a reality.
Also write down how much a good lawyer makes in a year, you can find out during your meeting with some of the friendly law firms.
You’re doing great, your life goal should be taking shape, and the natural forces in the universe are closely watching every move you make.
Potential Pitfalls That Might Derail Your Plan
1 – Please do not discuss your plan with friends, or even siblings. People talk, and two cannot keep a secret, from my experience. You’ll have enough time to let your parents know about your plans, but for now, just let it be your secret. People cannot oppose or sabotage what they don’t know about.
2 – Do not try to become or pursue a profession just because you saw it on TV, and you know someone in that profession. You have to know what you like to do, and start from there. Most adults are miserable at their job, because they hate what they do, if not for the mounting monthly bills.
Habit No 3 – Learn to Mange Your Money Well
This is the holy grail of all the habits combined. If you do not master this one, you’ll most like never be rich in due time. Unless you have a formula for handling money, your finances would fluctuate up and down, like a yo-yo ball.
There are several steps to mastering managing your money, and if you follow the following plans, you’ll have true wealth much sooner than your peers.
Money is a finite resource, and would always go to those that take good care of it. This is one of the key reasons why the rich get richer, and the poor get poorer.
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The following formula has been tested, and proven to be the key method to creating wealth.
Create Three Savings Accounts at Your Local Bank
The three accounts would serve several purposes, and I would further explain below. Most banks would let you open an account with just ten dollars, and if under 18 years old, you’ll be needing your parents signature.
Savings Account No 1 – Your Future Real estate Investment Money
Deposit at least 10% of every money that comes into your hands into this account. You might pick a different percentage, but I like rounded even numbers, makes figuring out numbers far much easier.
This money you do not touch, until you have enough to get your own real estate building. Please do not put money into this account, and then withdraw it for other purposes.
That is why this account is called the real estate investment money account. Remember, any dime you make, or you acquire from your allowance, put 10% into this account. Trust me, in due time you’ll be glad you did.
Savings Account No 2 – Money to Buy Personal Depreciating Stuff
In this account you’ll be depositing 5% of every dollar you make. The main focus of this account is to have the means to buy personal stuff that does not last, but makes life livable.
The money in this account should fund your clothes, car, shoes, educational training materials purchase.
I can tell you from experience, never buy depreciating products with bank credit cards, you’ll be enslaving yourself economically well into the future.
As the money in this account grows, you can then buy what you need!
Savings Account No 3 – Regular Spending Money
You can deposit your remaining funds into this account, and use it to enjoy life a little bit. The percentages to be deposited into the two above accounts can be adjusted higher if you wish, but do not lower them.
You have to start training yourself to live on 85% of what you make.
Some Good reasons Why You need Those Savings Accounts
If I look back in my lifetime, millions of dollars have passed through my hands, and can you imagine how much I would have by now, if I followed the savings plan listed above.
Saving money is an habit, and the perfect time to start is when you’re a teenager. If you fail to implement this savings plan, money would not stay long in your hands, and most likely you’ll remain financially poor as you grow up.
Not spending all you make, is the key to creating wealth, I promise you. It’s not how much you make, but how much you’re able to save.
Do not just put all your earnings into one account, and manage it like that. Your mind can play tricks on you, unless you train it to obey your wishes.
If you stick to the above steps, the funds in them would grow and grow, until you can afford whatever you need.
If you read this plan completely, that means you value good advise. If you skipped to the last chapter, go back and start implementing the sound life principles listed above.
Some adults would tell you the truth about mistakes they’ve made while growing up, but most are clueless about why they never became wealthy, in the first place.
Contrary to what some might think, success can be had by anyone, provided one knows exactly what they want, and what price you’re willing to pay to get it.
If you follow the above steps learned from my many activities in life, you’ll be in charge of your life, rather than your life been in charge of you.
For all the wise parent out there, please let us know any other habits that should have been included. You can leave your thoughts in the comments section.
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Kids are usually horrible when it comes to money and how to save it. Thankfully I am teaching them how to save money, and spend it wisely. They’re not to spend their money on pointless things like toys and stuff they wouldn’t use for too long. Kids are not pros at managing money, but teaching them can be done and I agree with every technique in this article.
One thing I’d like to add is that I have a private savings for each of my children, where I simply put money into it and it’s ready for them when they get to a certain age. This way it’s a backup if they decide to spend some of their current money.
I agree totally, you’re doing the right thing. I think if parents would sit their little ones down and clearly explain the true merits of saving some of what you earn, they might get it at an early age.
Thanks for your reply!
I agree with both the other comments. Kids are terrible at managing money, but they’re also terrible at reading and at cleaning the house if we don’t teach them how to do it properly. One thing that helps with money management and time management is to make it fun. Get them some bright colored notebooks or day planners to keep track of their financial goals and daily schedules. There are also fun computer budget programs for kids.
Sitting them down with an article like this and discussing the ideas would be a good starting place, but the most important thing – as always – is setting a good example. If we’re serious about saving and managing our time then our kids will listen when we tell them how important it is.
I can’t tell you how many times that I told myself, “If only I knew this when I was younger”. It is funny how we learn things as we go. At least you know not to teach your children. I have been through a divorce so I know what it is like. Lost tons of money, even had to live with a friend for 2 years. My life is finally getting back on track. I enjoyed this. You were honest and to the point. I hope younger adults come across this.
I am younger and I agree with this. So many of my friends have kids already, a few even filed for bankruptcy at only 24! Having a life plan in your teens is a wise choice. I didn’t have one but I am thankful to not be divorced with any children or major money issues. I may not have much going on for me, but it could always be worse. I really enjoyed this article.
With the state of the economy, how everyone is losing their homes left and right… I hope to never end up like that. I am 25, living with my parents still, no college degree, and working from home. I am thankful to not have any debts. I see so many of the people I went to school with struggling to make a living, many of them have children as well. I have made so many mistakes but I am thankful that they didn’t cost me. Having a plan is what everyone needs. You are preaching some truth here! Keep it up.
I really wish my parents were like this, teaching me the proper use for money. After college I wasted money far too much. Of course I learned to keep better track of things and I didn’t spend money on pointless things. Anyways I plan to teach my children how to take care of their money, because when you have money, it’s something you just want to spend right away. I say save it up, and wait.
I totally agree. I really didn’t learn much about time management and savings until I was an adult and following those habits has been a huge blessing in my life. By controlling how I spend my time and by putting money away into special accounts, I have been able to weather life’s storms and to achieve much more than I might otherwise have accomplished. I have tried (with only partial success) to instill these habits in my children. I wish I had begun to practice them earlier in life. If I had, I am confident that I would be further ahead.
If there are any young people reading this comment, take it from me. The advice given will change your life, make it richer and happier. Your life is a simple combination of time and what you do with it…that’s all. Make the most of it.
Kids are so awful at protecting their money, and it doesn’t help that our school system doesn’t teach them a whole lot about money habits. I’ve teached my kids as much as I can when it comes to proper use of money, but I know I’ll be making them read this article, that’s for sure.
The children are our future and we need them to know how to properly take care of their money. These days so far it doesn’t seem like that is going to be the case, but I’m glad there are sites like this to help out with teaching kids the proper way of taking care of money, it’s not easy by any means.
The thing I don’t like to combine is kids and money because a lot of kids out there will have poor skills when it comes to taking care of their money. I’ve taught my brother to take care of his money and so far he has, but I fear that he wont teach his daughter to take car of money when she gets to an age where she can spend money.
I think it comes down to showing poverty and showing that not everyone has money and that kids should save their money to have a better college experience or be able to start their own business or something else. It’s very hard to say no to kids spending though, but it can be done.
Time management isn’t one that I thought I would see here but it makes a lot of sense to instill that into our children at a young age. As adults, we have so much to do and very little time to get it done. If we had learned better time management skills early on, I think we would be able to enjoy more success now.
Great article for putting teens on the right path towards money management. While our program is geared at kids ages 6-12, starting as a teen is great too. The key is to begin your money skills before the adult-money issues become overwhelming.
At what age do you recommend starting a financial routine with children? I tried with my 5 year old and she didn’t quite get it yet so I thought I would wait a couple more years. This is something very important that everyone should know and teaching them as children is an excellent idea.
Having spending money separate from savings is a wise decision. Everyone has to spend some money at one time or another and wasteful expenditures often do teach financial responsibility as they see that they have no money and the item they bought isn’t all that great after all.